Well to all guys out there, surely most of you have encountered a lot of problems when meeting someone new and especially if that someone appears to be a hot and beautiful woman. Well don’t be sad about it as this topic will slightly give you some pointers or even methods that you may or may have not done before.
Are you one of those people that show glances to ladies hoping that they’ll pick up on your signs or signals telling them that you want to know them? Here’s a newsflash, most time girls don’t ever bother if you do that. So here are some ways that might help you to just go to her and ask her:
Try giving a blunt introduction, where you just tell her your name and from there onwards your chance is as good as fifty-fifty.
Do your best, because most girls don’t like quitters so do not easily give up. As long as you’ve tried she’ll know that you put on an effort despite the chances.
Be yourself, this is important as girls can sense if you’re not being yourself. This is because a common mistake that men make when going out with a girl is being too serious, so loosen up.
Do not cheat, if you have intent to lie or hurt her without much thought then that would be the end of you, as girls can be very notorious in a grudge.
Play it straight, try to work on getting the environment right and things will be on an easy street for you before you even realise it.
Originality, women can sense it if you’re faking and it will make the situation very awkward. So just talk about what you know and its okay to say “I don’t know”, on any given topic.
Confidence, believe in yourself and you will develop a confident approach.
First contact, don’t think that you just have one chance to impress her, women usually judge a man in overall terms- his appearance, the way he carries himself, the way he communicates, his thoughtfulness and so on. Just be friendly and smile =)
Well that’s all for today’s topic and I hope that it will help you in any way possible. Give yourself some time. You might not see the results instantly, but keep it up as you can only get better with time.
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